Keep your heart unlocked, then only there is a chance of
finding your true love.
My friend once said we fall for someone because he/she is
the best person you have ever come across in life. I partially agree with that
logic, because I feel there is something beyond that logic that pulls people
together.
Everyone will have requirements like physical appearance,
financial status, matching interests, sense of humor, community, religion etc. I am not saying you cannot find a person with
all these qualities. The problem is we want a person with all these qualities
and who loves unconditionally.
We have so many requirements, conditions to accept a person
and we expect unconditional love from that person. It’s our confusion that is
creating the problem. What we truly need is, a person who loves us, so our
first priority should be that. We are so much obsessed with other requirements;
this essential thing is pushed to the bottom of the list or sometimes removed
from the list.
One cine poet says,
“God created us to
love and use things. But in confusion we use humans and love things.
The day this changes its happiness everywhere and everyone
will be happy.”
This holds good for all the relationships including marriage.
We should never evaluate people the way we evaluate things.
Freeze your brain, open your heart, you’ll definitely find
your true love.
-Nandu
